Interpersonal Communication with Emphasis on non-verbal Communication
Human speaks non-orally, and this form one mode of communication which manufacture meaning. It sends sense via some ways other than words, such as eye contact, smile, touch, body language, and space and time usage. Nonverbal communication assists verbal communication, and is used to legalize meaning of a message, it highlights and strengthens information. And so goes the famous saying that “actions speak louder than words.” Here, the action is the constituent of nonverbal communication and was as a sound constituent of verbal communication. The ability to embrace a non-verbal form of communication across cultures remains a significant instance that becomes from various walks of life should embrace in different cases.
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At this age where communication is glorified to be all that counts, the work is design to show how Nonverbal communication has dramatically sharpened the world manifested with a variety of cultures. The nonverbal discussion has so far mount center giving connection either a life of dignity or indignity, reigning high with its engaging horns, playing a pivotal role in intercultural situations (Richards & Schmidt, 2014). Messages conveyed through the nonverbal mode provide the literal and substance meanings of words, and the method is relied upon to carry the hint of individuality ties and relational sense. Nonverbal communication gives the background for the interpretation, and it sympathized how the spoken dialogue is understood. At this level, it shapes clarity (Georgescu et al., 2014).
Nonverbal communications are now tracking left and right globally creating the foundation of a very relationship in human engagement, testing the depth of its existence (Leathers & Eaves, 2015). What is more important is that nonverbal communication gives help in the understanding message conveyed where verbal communication finds no acceptance? Example bound, A Japanese and an Englishman who does not understand the language of each other working in a similar construction site would point at a steel rod to mean “bring it over.” Nodding his head up and down to mean ‘yes,’ track his head left and right to mean “no.” Spreading his arm forward and bring it towards him to be understood as ‘come over,’ paints a vivid picture of how vital nonverbal communication has become in the present world, severely infested with language differences.
In consideration of the above illustration, nonverbal communication assists people in places of work, sports, and businesses among people who do not understand each other (Burgoon, Guerrero & Floyd, 2016). It connects and brings people together, the former US president Barack Obama could easily speak with his step-grandmother Sarah Obama through nonverbal communication who do not understand English. Indeed, it has so far brought the world to trade together.
Nonverbal communication is also a fundamental way of showing emotions, and attitudes and humans rely on them to “reveal” things that are obstinate to vocalize (Bertsch, 2016). For instance, a sudden look away when one tries to make eye contact with another may be interpreted in countless ways, from “I’m too engaged” to “I don’t want to converse with you” or “I’m uncomfortable.” Our clothing, and artifacts, which we wear, reveals our unique or cultural identity. They say something about us and the artistic inclinations (Verma & Pande, 2016). People should not be rigid to a given culture due to the high growth of globalization in the modern society. There is need to learn other non-verbal aspects of communication from cultures across. It indicates our racial, and gender identity, and how we say something is the judge from that angle, not what we say (Samovar, Porter, McDaniel & Roy, 2014). How a person pronounced words, pitch range, volume, articulation, and rate can quickly tell the tribe or race. We assess others’ speech based on our standards. If one increases his or her voice during a chat, it will be interpreted as being furious or provoked. Nonverbal communication supplements emotions like sadness, anger, fear, interest, and happiness (Guerrero, Andersen & Afifi, 2017). Holding eye contact can be a symbol of respect, honesty, appeal, notice, or power, for instance. Failure to make eye contact can similarly be an indication of respect, fear, intimidation, lack of interest, and more. Some of this depends on the culture.
As population surges on and on, we are somewhat territorial, and fighting to have our spaces as a way of claiming our territory (McQuail & Windahl, 2015). Our limits exist in space, and we feel attached to and develop a sense of possession over a particular place. When someone invades our area, we start to feel sensitive, vulnerable, and in danger (Limbu, Jayachandran, Babin & Peterson, 2016). Our city is attacked; we act in response without contemplating our reactions because we feel primarily violated. Example, in an open-air market where spaces are insufficient, people complain and fight when others “spread their commodities in their spot,” even though all spots are publically owned.
Nonverbal communication is such a vital that it has help link people with different language background, giving rise to effective trade across culture. It has created a sense of belonging, giving individual territorial security. People in various cultures embrace different elements of non-verbal communication. That is an instance making it prudent to first get an understanding of a given culture before employing a given aspect of non-verbal communication. That applies since certain styles might be offensive in other cultures.
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