Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is a self-help group that is the most renowned and largest in the world. It was founded in 1935, and many programs based on 12-Step have been modeled since then. These self-help groups are free of cost and open to anyone who wants to attend and participate in them. Its meetings are usually held in different places like public buildings and churches. The 12-step self-help group programs deal with the causes or factors that are related to, or responsible for, substance abuse by assisting people to understand and grasp the concept of change.
I had no idea what it was like to be an attendee of an AA meeting. I have seen and heard people about these meetings for alcoholics in movies and Television shows. I used to perceive these meetings as a circle conference comprising strangers just telling deliberating stories regarding their events of life and the everlasting variations they experienced due to this disease. Therefore, I did not know exactly what to expect from my surroundings, so a nervous sensation ran from head to toe. At first, I thought of taking my friend along since I was extremely afraid to face people, but then, upon request, my friend suggested I visit alone and take the lead in carrying out my research.
Upon walking inside, I introduced myself to the men sitting there and then elucidated the purpose of my presence there. The meeting attendees belonged to all age groups, male or female gender, and black or white. Some were retired Navy contractors and chiefs, socially dejected individuals, and teenagers. However, the majority of the members were males. We had a small chit-chat session before the meeting formally started and were offered a cup of coffee. A guest speaker named Albert sat with us and discussed a few general experiences, and his words were a source of real relaxation for me at that time, while some of the members were yet to come. Albert was in his late 20s, but to my extreme astonishment, he was way more mature than those his age. There were two ladies, and after speaking with them, I learned they were two men’s wives. Both of them were there to support their husbands. I realized they were happy to accompany their husbands in their sobriety.
Johnson, the eldest among the group members, started the meeting, talked to everyone, and asked about the first-timers and newcomers in the meeting. I mustered up all my courage when it came to my turn and stood up. I explained my detailed background that I am a 27-year-old African American male who is accustomed to having 1-4 drinks occasionally and, as a student, attending this AA meeting as a part of my class related to Alcohol Addiction. I did not state my prior experiences, as I was there only to observe the proceedings, for which Johnson thanked me. Some newcomers were shy, while others seemed quite rugged and hesitated to provide their proper introduction.
One after another, all the members shared their stories, but one story that actually inspired and overwhelmed me was of a woman who was six months sober and had been an alcoholic for a long. She reported losing her child due to her alcoholic addiction and said that while she was sobering up, her child stayed at a foster home. She was heartbroken and torn inside when she was away from her son, and that journey was devastating. However, she was strongly determined to stay sober, and her will to stay the best mother made her choose the right path. After listening to her distressing life happenings, I noticed a motivational sensation among all the attendees. This woman has been a part of this group for almost eight months now, and this support group is the only thing holding her together. Hence, I realize that such recovery and support groups are significant in helping someone get through tough situations.
I never happened to see the horrible side of alcoholism until I became a part of this support group. I believe there is a difference between being an alcoholic and being a part of alcoholics anonymous. After listening to the distressful life stories and struggles of all the members, I realized that addiction is to be taken quite seriously because it not only brings damage to the person physically but also hurts one socially and mentally. One of the attendees symbolized it as a web where a man gets caught, and no matter what they do to untangle themselves from that web, the struggle is unreal.
I am grateful that I experienced this AA meeting owing to my latest semester’s project because it helped me realize the struggles and hardships of people to become sober, which is a real achievement. AA meetings offer people a constant source of cooperation and support at every stage of the recovery process. It is an accommodating platform where people interact, learn, and are involved in mutual support and assistance with others who are under pressure and harassed at the hands of alcoholism. Lastly, I believe every person who goes through this struggle deserves all the appreciation.
