Parents hold a great stature in Islam. Allah SWT makes it essential for children to submit to their parents and show their best attitude. The paramount of children’s successful lives lies in the pleasure and happiness of parents. They must lower their ‘wings’ of mercy towards them and cooperate with them during difficult times. Children may achieve this level of manners only if the parents have steered them according to the guidelines of Islam which is their fundamental responsibility. Our beloved Prophet Muhammad PBUH said:
A Good Name
The primary responsibility of parents after the birth of their child is to give them a good name by the traditions of Islam. This is because every name affects its bearer. Our beloved Prophet Muhammad PBUH said:
Fair Treatment
Every child has its place and right in the family. He must be treated fairly especially when it comes to spending and gifting. Our beloved Prophet Muhammad PBUH stated the significance of treating children fairly in one of his sayings:
This proves showing undue preference to children by gender is a sinful act. This creates a feeling of hatred and jealousy among siblings that continues for the rest of their lives.
Inculcating the Right of Allah
One of the prime responsibilities of parents is to instill the correct faith and rights of Allah in their children. It must be followed by the religious acts of worship that will get them closer to Allah SWT. Tawheed is the most sensitive principle that marks the circle of entering Islam. Prophet Muhammad PBUH said:
Spend Appropriately
Fathers have the utmost responsibility to spend properly on their children. Mothers are not accountable for this purpose; if they do pay, it is best for sadaqah. Fathers must provide for their families and give children all life’s necessities. They must find ways to bring their kids up properly. Our beloved Prophet Muhammad PBUH said:
Right of Proper Education
The right training is the most significant facet of raising kids. In Islam, the best gift to children from their parents is proper education as it helps them to become responsible Muslims and fulfill the rights of Almighty Allah. This will help them to become successful in the hereafter as well. Our beloved Prophet said:
Suppose every parent takes responsibility seriously and ensures that their children are true successors of Islam. In that case, this will be a continuous charity for the parent’s benefit and bring positive change to our society.
